Girl problems

-=AlexXx=- · Posted: Feb 26, 2005 8:27 am Post subject: Girl problems

Ok, guys... i wouldnt normaly do something like this but i need ideas... i hope u guys can help.

Alright well i began this relationship with this girl in october of last year. We had a good few months then right b4 x-mas break, she got caught sneeking over to my house instead of going to work, her dad was furious and grounded her indefenitaly. At this point, i was frustrated, i couldnt see her outside of school, or even talk to her on the telephone. i was thinking about dumping her, but she brought up so many good points y i shouldnt, she fed me so many " i love yous" and wrote poetry about me and all kindsa a shizzle, so i jsut couldnt break up with her, then i truly fell in love with her. This all happend mid janurary. Ok, so we were all good, her birthday was last month, i made that pretty special for her considering i could only see her at school, ah.. so i would go see her at her work, and she would call me at times when her pareents wernt home. We were pretty happy, then her dad got the phones taped, and he cuaght her. She had lied to them so much, and finlay she was sick of it, he hated me, and he threatend to take her outa my school, to be home schooled, So, the day after valintines day... she decided that she had to break up with me. she was stressed, she didnt sleep... it was a bad situation. But we loved each other. It was un beleiveable the stuff she would write to me then jsut wnana dump me. So, we worked it out, i showed her my heart, and told her what she ment to me. She reconsisdered and appologized and got me this nice card. lol. So the rest of that week week went well. Then then... this week.... she was sick, so i was all being affectionate, and it was a good day (tuesday) we were u know being b/f g/f we were both sick.. having fun.. hehe, then the next day, she almost totaly ignored me.... werid. So i then i jsut asked her about it and she didnt mean to or whatever.... soo it was just so werid this week, then finlay friday, she just finaly decided we needed a break.. but then i heard from her friend that she told them that we broke up. Everyone felt sorry for me, they thought i was the sweetest b/f and this and that.... soo guys my question... what can i do to get her back. Ive told her everything i can, ive dun everything, i dont know what to do next... ill take any suggestions.. execpt dont say forget her. cuz thats not an option. thanks.

Josh · Posted: Feb 26, 2005 9:49 am Post subject:

I think you should hit her father over the head with a shovel. Parents that protective have no place on this earth...

andy ross · Posted: Feb 26, 2005 11:53 am Post subject:

Josh, i agree... not about hitting him with a shovel, but i think he still needs to talk to her dad.

jboss · Kickflip Joined: 22 Jun 2004 Posts: 3210 City: Chalmette

if ya havin girl problems i feel bad for you son i got 99 problems but a beach aint one HIT ME!!!!!!!!

Morphine · Backside 180 Joined: 03 Jun 2004 Posts: 1207 City: 706omg

BillyOLDS · Posted: Feb 26, 2005 1:49 pm Post subject:

morphine for a youndgin u got it down pretty close, alil outspoken but my aplause lol

alexx,
ive been there done that, first and for most, PLAY IT COOL, dont act desprete, and if nessecary dont speak to her and most likely she'll melt into ur arms again. if she doesnt she's not owrth it and ull prob end up dicking over the next girl u date in a fit of revenge lol i did that one a few times, it didnt show my ex anything but it made me feel better lol. also when u get older ull relize that it was just a fling just try and move one honestly.

i have a theory on this subject that ive had for a long time...
most girls fall for the guy very easily, and very hard
then when the girl is sick of the guy not feeling the same way they start getting distance
then all of a sudden the guy realizes wat he's loosing and poors his heart out
the girl either puts a leash on his neck and has a puppy until the roles reverse again or she leaves the guy in his own misery and laughs

Bestleft4dead · Pop Shuvit Joined: 09 Oct 2004 Posts: 221 City: Clermont

You guys are all wrong/right. women, you can never understand them. Rolling Eyes

from what i've learned from my minimal experience no matter what you do, you'll always do something wrong. theres no one game plan to get every chick or to keep a chick. you just have to go against your instincts as they are 80% of the time wrong with women.

jonnyUTAH · Backside 180 Joined: 27 Aug 2004 Posts: 1951

SleuCrew · Posted: Feb 26, 2005 6:03 pm Post subject:

Why exactly does her dad hate you so much?

Answer me that then i can give you a complete answer on what to do.

seven11dmd · Posted: Feb 26, 2005 6:30 pm Post subject:

-=AlexXx=-, dude how old are you? if your going to college soon i suggest NOT having a girlfriend when you do. ive been dating a girl since junior year in hs, and now im a sophmore in college, and ive missed out on so much. anyways man that thing is not worth it, if a dad is that psycho he will make your lives miserable i promise... just enjoy the experience and move on. there is a MILLION other girls out there just like her i swear.

-=AlexXx=- · Posted: Feb 27, 2005 10:35 am Post subject:

Hey guys ur all right, morphine, ima ry to do what u said, play it cool and just kinda be distant.. i hope that'll work. But seven 11 your right, im a junior now, but still i should try to go out with alotta other chicks and stuff and i dont wanta g/f in college. SLuecrew, her dad hates me cuz.... well i have never met him.. but her daughter has been caught at my house... in my bed... various reasons.. but ive never met the man. Whatever... There is a million other girls out there your all right, ill keep you all updated on this subject for the next few weeks, well see what the outcome is. For now ima stay real distant let and let her come to me. Smile

thanks guys. I was hoping ilovereed woulda posted something so i could get a girls point of veiw, all my girl friends say to just lay low, and shell come crawling back once she realizes what she is losing.

Mr. Top Hat · Dead Joined: 29 Aug 2004 Posts: 5818

TTUFAN24 · Posted: Feb 27, 2005 10:56 am Post subject:

build her a cake or something

iloveareed · Frontside 180 Joined: 14 Sep 2004 Posts: 430 City: ATHENS

hah i wanted to post something sorry alex. but i didnt know what to stay. these are weird circumstances considering her dad is a freaking pyscho

TTUFAN24 · Posted: Feb 27, 2005 11:01 am Post subject:

iloveareed, thank you for changing your avatar

iloveareed · Frontside 180 Joined: 14 Sep 2004 Posts: 430 City: ATHENS

sure thing

-=AlexXx=- · Posted: Feb 27, 2005 11:12 am Post subject:

iloveareed, ya thanks, her dad is crazy.... like litterely hes dun some crazy things.

Vance Collins · Guest

Maybe its because you have a small pee pee? Shocked

andy ross · Posted: Feb 27, 2005 12:51 pm Post subject:

vance, i was thinking the same thing. Laughing

PIRATE · Guest

i remember those days when a problem like this was the hardest thing i had to deal with. anywho let me give you some words of wisdom.

o.k i cant think of any right now but dude honestly i know it seems like the end of the world but, if this is the lowest point in your life then your ahead of the game Laughing