I've got to vent.

urinal mint · Backside 180 Joined: 20 May 2005 Posts: 1990

So yeah. I had it all. A great girlfriend. She picked up wakeboarding and wakeskating this year. She loves it.

Sure, we fought.
Sure, we said hurtful things.
Sure, we did everything that any other relationship does.

Was she perfect? No. Would I want it any other way? No.

I tell myself, sure... You'll be ok in a month or two, give or take. Alas, that's how breakups are. Maybe if I wasn't such a fvcking inconsiderate one-way hearing piece of shizzle I might still have you.

Maybe I should pull my head out of my ass next time so I won't fvck shizzle up like I did. Maybe I should just keep it there and save myself the embarrassment from the fvcking fool I was to ever take you for granted.

Maybe I should have treated you with the respect from when I did from day one. Surely I wouldn't be in this vat of shizzle that I am now.

You treated me pretty good even after all the tear creating, heart torturing third grade bullsh1t I put you through.

I sit here listening to the usual love bullsh1t songs with a desire to just go buy some alcohol. I could do that, I could cope with this a lot easier that way. I'm not going to take the easy way out. I've done that enough. I'm going to make myself suffer just like I made you suffer. I want to feel the same pain that I made you feel so maybe I learn from my mistakes.

I love you.

Disclaimer:

Sorry guys. Ya know what, make fun of me. Why the fvck am I even setting myself up for this. Laugh at me for posting this emo bullsh1t. I had a great girl and threw it all away over being inconsiderate and selfish. Typing this shizzle won't get her back, that's life. Typing this shizzle will make me feel a little better. Normally I would say please keep the douche nugget comments out of here. Make fun of me, I deserve much more than that for wasting this girls time.

Who knows, maybe I'll have some post filled with encouragement from people that share a huge hobby in my life.

DAM · Ollie Joined: 30 Jun 2007 Posts: 68 City: Orlando

unfotunitly it will get worse befor it gets better. best of luck man. remember everything happens for a resone. you seem to have learned your lesson and it may stop you from making the same mistake again.
-peace

Slapdown · Kickflip Joined: 20 Apr 2005 Posts: 4240 City: Austin

People make mistakes dude. Good luck with the recovery. Keep your head up though, never lose hope.

soy escuala · Backside 180 Joined: 16 Jan 2006 Posts: 2248

1. quit cutting yourself down, you are the prize, not her.

2. believe it or not, you still have the upper hand in this and thats why she is flipping it on you, just realize that if you were a dick to her, and didnt treat her good...she's thinking that she wasnt good enough for you. and right now she's trying to teach you a lesson. girls actualy like guys that create drama in their life.. they feed off of it. it's a rush to them, atleaste you wern't all super nice.. then she'll be gone for good because you put her on a pedistol. by being a dick to her... you displayed higher value over her, and showed that you were alpha.

3. she is DEFINATLY without a doubt going to be with other guys now, and fast! one to try to forget about you and two to get you jealous... she wants you to win her back. although she might go a little pass making out with these guys.. it sucks but.. its true. shes trying to recreate what she had with you even though she knows deep down it will never be the same. i know this hurts the worst but... shes trying to show you that she doesnt need you even though she knows she does. don't be mad at her for it, NEVER show your jealousy! big turn off.

4. DO NOT blow up her phone!!!! wait two days from now and then call her, if she doesnt answer... leave her a voicemail and tell her you thought alot and would like to talk to her. keep it short but sweet i promise she'll call you back. and it will be when SHE wants to talk. so the timing will be perfect. when she asks what you're doing.. make something up, be busy. dont let her know you're sitting around making emo posts on wakeskating.com. talk to her like a normal human being, use trance words and comfort her by talking to her really sweet like you did when you were togeather... this will subliminaly put her back into the feeling that she had with you when you guys were doing really good and were crazy about eachother... so make sure your tone of voice matches that state. and remember... DON'T WHINE!!!! chicks hate whiny guys.

5. in the mean time.. work on yourself.. how can you improve yourself? go work out, go ride... put in more hours at your job.. anything to better yourself to kill time and take your mind off it, would be good, and she'll notice you are trying to change

6. quit being a whimp.

7. there's a reason you treated her bad in the first place... bottom line you got tired of her shizzle. and trust me.. it's going to repeat itself.. all that happened is she got tired of you treating her bad so she left you.. trying to prove a point, even tho she still loves you.. and you guys WILL get back togeather...and your not gunna change... you may think so now.. but give it a month you'll hate her again. she's just got you where she wants you right now and is going to try to make you suffer.. but dont show her any signs of concern untill you call her TWO days from now.

8. remember what i said.. YOU are the prize. don't get jealous when she Fs other rebound guys, even though it kills you inside. chicks hate jealous guys because it shows low self esteem. call her in TWO days, only call once! make sure you leave a voicemail not asking but telling her to call you back when SHE gets the chance. work on yourself... how can YOU change for the better?

i promise you if you play it right she will come back to you in a heartbeat... just dont act so desperate or she'll feed off of it and make you wait longer because she LOVES the attetion! shizzle will work out bro.. for real... just stop being such a whimp about it.
and if not.... ohh well... you obviously didnt really care that much anyway... she's just giving you a taste of your own shizzle and its driving you crazy... she got you in a spell.

and one more thing to help with the rebound guy issue... no matter HOW overly nice or perfect those guys treat her... it will never mean shizzle to them, because when a girl uses a guy as a rebound... they are NEVER anything more. no matter how rich, how hot, how nice... ect. all she is going to think about is you, and how unlike you this guy is... she fell in love with YOU remember?

Wink

Slapdown · Kickflip Joined: 20 Apr 2005 Posts: 4240 City: Austin

soy escuala, Wow.

Laughing

soy escuala · Backside 180 Joined: 16 Jan 2006 Posts: 2248

Slapdown, shut up dude.. Laughing

liquid · Posted: Jul 11, 2007 4:08 am Post subject:

Oh man.

Schmaltz · Backside 180 Joined: 16 Sep 2003 Posts: 721 City: San Jose

You guys listen to WAY too much "Dashboard Confessional" & "Bright EYES"...

1) Go buy a SLAYER Or Sepultura album and let anger be the wind beneath your wings...

2) Watch UFC marathons on Spike TV... That way you can get some Testosterone pumping thru your veins again... then go start a fight.

3) Or just write her a Poem and send flowers.

TTUFAN24 · Posted: Jul 11, 2007 4:48 am Post subject:

urinal mint, have sex with her friend. all problems solved.

p.s. my boy loves the oak you shipped him to plano (fankiecouplepuffs)

K'jellman · Posted: Jul 11, 2007 4:49 am Post subject:

OMG!!! HITCH IS BACK HUH!!!??? IS THAT YOU HITCH!!!??

knox · Kickflip Joined: 14 Jun 2007 Posts: 4693 City: Gainesville

im sorry man. Just skate hard. Let each pop shuv be one pop shuv closer to when u didnt feel like crap inside. Mabye she will come back. Mabye she wont.U have to live with the fact that u messed up. All that means is that u have the power to fix it.

Good luck bro, I honestly hope it all works out for u.

t-rex · Backside 180 Joined: 24 Jun 2007 Posts: 2007 City: Denver

bummer mate. that sucks. keep ya head up, fill the time with something positive and productive, the alcohol is not gonna help.

go skate Cool

knox · Kickflip Joined: 14 Jun 2007 Posts: 4693 City: Gainesville

t-Rex, i agree. get out and skate!

Mr. Top Hat · Dead Joined: 29 Aug 2004 Posts: 5818

start smoking cigarettes, girls love a tough guy.

t-rex · Backside 180 Joined: 24 Jun 2007 Posts: 2007 City: Denver

stompin9s · Posted: Jul 11, 2007 11:18 am Post subject:

someone better will come along, when ur not looking or least expect it...thats what happened to me Very Happy

bjr · Posted: Jul 11, 2007 1:33 pm Post subject:

soy escuala, i enjoyed reading that.....and urinal goodluck

wakechick · Posted: Jul 11, 2007 1:34 pm Post subject:

I'll send you a video of T-rex that will have you laughin' your ass off and cheered up in no time. Caveat, you may puke alittle at first and feel uncomfortable watching it...but um...yeah nvrmind I won't send it. Smile

Seriously...chin up man...breakups suck!!!

Jholiday · Posted: Jul 11, 2007 3:16 pm Post subject:

screw dr. phil...........lets hear it for dr. escuela

liquid · Posted: Jul 11, 2007 4:51 pm Post subject:

WWCOD

what would conor oberst do?